Monday again... FWBs now?

Monday and I had sex again.  This time I didn't stick my foot in my mouth and say something stupid.  Well, maybe in the "pregame" breakfast.  He called and we went out for breakfast after our shifts were over.  We were just friends at this moment.  Neither of us sure if sex was in the cards for that day.  The waitress gave us one check, so we were deciding who should pay.  He said,

"I'll take it, it was my idea to come out for breakfast anyways."
"Are you sure?  I mean, I'm not one of the girls who needs to have meals paid for." 

And the tension ensued.  I didnt look at him, just at my phone.  It was terrible, but it passed like it should with friends.

Back at my house/room, we ended up watching Batman: Year One.  Ahh, that's such a great panty dropper.  Not really.  It took some time to actually get into the mood for sex.  You know, hand touching/rubbing, leg rubbing.  I didnt want to be the one who made the first move.  I was waiting for him.  The whole time we were laying there I was thinking, Come on, I know you want to.  Just make the first move.  Finally, he did.  But then we realized, no condom.  So I just go down on him again.  He came easily.  I like when that happens; I dont have to work hard at making someone cum.  It gets boring after awhile.  I snickered as I took off his pants, remembering my blunder Monday.  I swallowed, not wanting to have to go to the bathroom to spit.  Such a hassle.  He didnt want to full on kiss me, due to the semen mouth I had.  But he did well with the other stuff.  No finger penetration or oral sex, this time, but I still came and well too.  Dizzy, lightheaded well. 

Sometime later, after conversations and more Batman: Year One (apparently it IS a panty dropper. Must be all that black leather batman wears), we get into it again.  This time, no substitutions possible.  We needed a condom (or two) and fast.  So I had to get one from my roommate.  One's room was locked, the other had someone over from the night before.  So, when I went to ask him, it was a tad awkward for me.  I used the words, "can I borrow a condom?"  Yeah, I know how to do it.  Dumbass.  The roommate found it hilarious. 

The look on Monday's face after he came was entertaining.  It was part Wow, part what just happened.  He told me it was because he wasnt expecting my vagina's walls squeezing him as he came.  I dont even remember doing that, but I guess that's good that I dont remember doing it.  I can remember scrapping my nails across his skin and the sharp intake of breath from him... so turned me on more.

We laid in bed talking for awhile, about movies, comics and music.  Sharing stories about our lives and what we like, etc.  I know I could've done it all day long.  Talking and having sex, not caring about who is in the house at the time  Those are the times I like.  Now I'm digressing.  Anyways, we were like that until I realized it was 2pm and he needed to go. 

The best part about finding someone to have sex with is having sex with them again.  You don't have to look around and play the flirtatious part again.  If you can find someone that is good and knows what you like, you obviously want to have sex with that person again.  Being friends with benefits is an excellent option, if it ends the way you want:  either just being friends or more.  If you don't then that just sucks.  Feelings are more likely to develop with FWBs, deep I-am-in-love-with-you feelings. So if you can handle that, go for it.

One more thing, if the pair in question happen to live, oh say 40 minutes apart, remember to have extra condoms (safe sex everybody) and an extra set of clothes, always.  Especially if you are working a.m. shifts and you suddenly realize that it's 2pm and you needed to be alseep like now for a midnight shift.