Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Difficult times, difficult decisions

Recently I've taken a blow to my income.  A serious one.  I still only work 14 hours per week at the repair shop here in St. Augustine.  And nothing else.  It is certainly devastating to try to live on such a small amount of income.  And lately, I have been trying to push the thought out of my mind that I am starting to resent THE BOYFRIEND, starting to blame him for MY job loss.  And I can't do that.  I can't do that to him, and I can't do that to myself.  I make my own "destiny", my own choices.  No one else.  But at the same time, ... I can't help but think those things.  It's been making my life difficult.  Tearing me apart essentially.

I've also been thinking that maybe he doesn't regard me in the same way that I regard him.  I know he works very hard, and is extremely stressed at the TV station (his boss is a complete dick ... I used to work with the guy, I know).  Maybe I'm just looking for things that aren't there.  Maybe I am just fearing something, or throwing my own negative thoughts out onto him.

I just need to get out of this slump.  Find a way to make my situation better.  I know he could care and miss me if I took a job in another city.  But maybe that is the only way I can better my situation.  Would he be supportive if I had such a chance?  Gotta try to find out.

Til then, Adieu.

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